Sunday Best!


-Lesson given by my friend, Laura-

Thoughts from “Charity Never Faileth” by Thomas S. Monson, Sept. 2010
Main Ideas- 
Part A:
1. No one is perfect…”and yet for some reason, despite our own imperfections, we have a tendency to point out those of others”.
2. There is no way to know the a) heart, b) intentions, c) circumstances behind someone’s actions [we don’t have all the facts].
3. “Appearances can be so deceiving, such a poor measure of a person”.
4. “Each of you is unique”…the differences are endless. Do these differences tempt us to judge one another?
Mother Teresa said, “If you judge people, you have no time to love them.”
Part B:
Instead of judging, President Monson admonishes us to focus on the following:
“I consider charity-or ‘the pure love of Christ’-to be the opposite of criticism and judging”

  • Charity is tolerant of others and lenient toward their actions
  • Charity forgives
  • Charity is patient with someone who has let us down
  • Charity impels us to be sympathetic
  • Charity is compassionate 
  • Charity is merciful in time of weakness or error on the part of others
  • Charity gives attention to those who are unnoticed
  • Charity gives hope to those who are discouraged
  • Charity aids those who are afflicted 
  • Charity does not gossip
  • Charity resists the impulse to become offended easily
  • Charity accepts weaknesses and shortcomings in ourselves and others
  • Charity accepts people as they truly are
  • Charity looks beyond physical appearances toward attributes
  • Charity resists the impulse to categorize others
  • Charity manifests itself in a hundred small ways
“Life is perfect for none of us. Rather than being judgmental and critical of each other, may we have the pure love of Christ for our fellow travelers in this journey through life.” -Thomas S. Monson
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What a great lesson! Hope your Sunday was the Best! Love, Joy

"Have a super great day!!"

I work at a dental office. 
It is a great place to work. 
In fact, as far as dental offices go, it is a wonderful place. 
My job is to talk to the patient at the end of their visit. I reschedule them and collect money. I don’t mind it at all. I am usually the last person they see before they walk out the door. One day, while visiting with the patient who was checking out, I finished the conversation with, 
“Have a super great day!!” 
All the people that I work with just laughed and teased me about that, like I was being sappy or not sincere. Just so you know, I’m not the type of person to wish someone a 
super great day
unless I meant it.  They apparently don’t know that in order to have a super great dayyou have to be “puttin it out there”, like “The Secret”.  I always use the word super in front of great day!” When I say my prayers in the morning before I leave my home, I ask God to please help me “Have a super great day!” It’s what I want and what I am trying for, everyday. I want that for everyone, I hope you “Have a super great day too! 
Natasha, Havin a super great day!

Happy Birthday to my darling Flexy!

My darling Flexy turned
 20 years old today! Wow! 
Where did the time go?
Just to celebrate, 
here are 20 things
 I love about Flexy…
* he is rarely upset
* he knows how to have fun 
with out spending money 
* he is responsible
* he loves Heavenly Father
* he is a good friend
* he is kind to everyone
* he is easy going/happy go lucky
*  he is a hard worker
* he is my most quoted child
* he is a good brother
* he loves Jesus
* he is a good example 
* he is loving
* he is strong
* he is funny
*he is an Eagle Scout
* he is very profound
* he is handsome
* he is respectful
* he is a great son! 
You are a wonderful son!!! Happy Birthday Alex!
I love you!

Family History Friday: Handwriting!

If you do a lot of research that involves a census or parish record, where the names and information is hand written by a enumerator or census taker. 
Having a guide or an example of the handwriting  that was common at the time, would be very helpful in being able to read and know what they were trying to record. 
There are many helps out there. 
I like to keep a sheet of paper with me when I do research that shows example of the way some letters or numbers might be written and what they are.  You can also find many helps on the internet. One such place is britishgenealogy.com 
You will find it here.

Totally "Fort Worth" it!

First Letter February 24th 2011
Dear Familia,
Hola, Wow! The MTC is crazy! There are so many great people here. Today is thursday, so the wild stuff is mostly over. Yesterday was pretty much a blur, but I’ll tell you what I can remember. After you guys left, they took me and my luggage back to a room where a bunch of other sisters were. I met a bunch of them and we chatted for a little bit. Then a sister that has been here for a while came and got me. She took me around to pick up a bunch of different items I would need (i.e. my key to my room, my name tag, books and scriptures in Espanol, and lots of other things), and to drop off my luggage. Then she took me to my class. Hermana Billins is so cute. She is one of my teachers, and she mostly speaks Spanish. she’s trying to have us speak as much as we can, as often as we can. Haderlie is my other teacher. He is great too. I’ve only met with him a little, but I can tell he is going to be awesome. After class we had a Welcome Orientation where we met the MTC Presidency. They are so amazing! I know they are called of God. Next we went to dinner, which reminded me of high school or jr. high, except everyone is nice, and talks to you.
Oh, I forgot to tell you about my two companions. Hermana Rasmussen is from Idaho Falls, and Hermana Barlow is from Washington DC. They are super great and adorable. At dinner I saw, none other than, Sister Buswell! It was so exciting! We both got all excited and gave hugs, and she talked with me a bit. It was so nice to see her. She is such an inspiration to me. Also, I saw Brother and Sister Fowers, and gave them hugs. After dinner we went to a group teaching where you are in a small group (maybe 20 missionaries), and you teach an investigator. You are supposed to try to see what their needs are. We met with three men. It was really a good experience to talk to them, and see what we could do for them, and to see how just us sharing small parts of the gospel with them changed their disposition. It was really neat. After that, we met our Zone Leaders, and them ca e back to our room to unpack. I had a really hard time sleeping last night I got bed @ 10:30, but couldn’t sleep because I had so much going on in my head. Plus I woke up several times in the night. We decided wake up @ 5:45 to go to the early morning exercise class just for girls, so we went to that. Today has just been really busy. That’s pretty much what we always are though. Busy, busy, Busy! But another good thing about today…I met another Sister going to Fort Worth, Spanish speaking!! Her name is Hermana Valdez and she is leaving to go down to Texas in March, because she already knows Espanol. It was so exciting to meet her though. I’ll probably see her down in Texas. Anyway, I probably better go now. Love you all lots. Do good things! Love, Hermana Kelsey
PS Be sure to give my address to everyone!  I want lots of letters!
🙂 oxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

Howzit-Elder Flexy!


Elder Flexy 8:4 -email-



Make,
wow thats so cool i’m glad all went well with dropping Kelsey off. my new comp is awesome and all is well. but this computer is the laggiest computer ever so i have to be short. ya i just bearly realized that my birth day is coming up soon its kinda weird. anyway

1 Did you ask the Blackburns if they will do a disc of your pictures?
1.ya i’m gonna talk to them about that.
2 Did your baptism happen?
2.yep Babe Elias Dlamini is officially a member
3 If so how was it?
3.great all went well i gave a talk on the holy ghost it was good
4 What is the name of the town/city that you live in?
4., , swaziland
5 How is your companionship?
5.great elder diseko is a great guy
6 Favorite scripture?
6.Mathew 14:26(CTR)
Special question:
7 Why do we need to not judge?

7.  because we don’t have all the facts as to why this person did this only God has that knowledge.
love you sorry this computer stinks

Love Elder Flexy



Babe,
glad to hear all the good news i’m still alive and kickin the work is going well and i’m loving swaziland. thats cool about your friends shop we have an investigator that has some swords and battle axes on his walls as decorations. anyway this computer is giving me a hard time love you.

Love Elder Flexy


EM!!!
your all alone i hope all works out with your friends thats why you get friends like me and colter then you don’t have to worry about all that. anyway i love you my little sister.


Love Elder Flexy