Family History Friday: I Think My Get Up and Go…

Got up and Went!

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It has been some time since I wrote a “Family History Friday” post. Life has it’s way of changing and rearranging things. I recently started another job. Another job besides my full time job. I only work another 6 hours a week, but it is just enough to put a kink in the plan that was already in place.

I will admit, I am struggling to find time to do my family history, which doesn’t help. I feel kinda like a comedian that is telling the same jokes for years and years. I need some new material.

I need to get a grip.

I need to do a lot of things.

Right now, it seems I may need to refocus and just “do it”. So for this week’s “Family History Friday” I will share with you something my dad wrote about family history.

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On ‘Little by Little’

   We marvel at the wonders of this world and we see them as if they always existed in their current state when in reality they were probably years, centuries, or millinia, in the making. Very few events in history happen instantly even though that may seem to be the case by one just coming on the scene. Greatness happens: little by little, moment by moment, inch by inch, penny by penny, grain by grain, piece by piece, one by one, word by word, brick by brick, stroke by stroke.
When I was a young man I became an apprentice bricklayer and eventually a journeyman. I can remember how in awe I was to see large buildings emerge from the process that I was a part of, ‘one brick at a time’.
Years later I graduated from the university and started a new career,  bought a new home. There was no money to buy decorative pictures. I decided to try my hand at oil painting, and I thought, maybe if I were good enough I could decorate our home with my own paintings. I am not ordinarily  easy going, nor a patient person and I wondered if I would have the patience for such an undertaking. I bought my first canvas and built an easel to mount it on, then I began my venture. I had never recognized any artistic ability in me nor had I ever attempted to do anything artistic before that time. But brush stroke by stroke an image began to emerge and finally my first painting was finished. Was it anything to brag about, I think not; but it was a start and stroke by stroke and painting by painting I eventually had paintings hanging on our walls. They were not professional but were nice and decorative. Before I gave up painting, I had painted enough fairly nice paintings that my children requested them for their own homes.
When we think of a person’s pursuit of a college education and the capstone diploma, it wasn’t done over night. Twelve years of public school, then registering, class by class. Each class requires books and papers and tests. Word by word, test by test, paper by paper, class by class, term by term, year by year. Finally it is over and tear by tear you celebrate.
My daughter is a busy wife, mother, grandmother, housekeeper and wage earner, as well. She often finds herself a little harried and frustrated. One day her young son, recognized his mother’s frustration in trying to do too many things and said to her; “Mom, Slow and steady wins the race.” This was shortly after having read the story of the Tortoise and the Hare. All things seem easier and life is much smoother  and less frustrating when we try to slow down and take one step at a time, step by step. As J.R.R. Tolkien said, “Little by little, one travels far.” From a song I heard along the way, “Little by little, and one by one the greatest deeds in the world are done’… Little by little, and day by day, we learn life’s lessons along the way.”
(II Timothy 1:7) “For God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” We are the offspring of God should we go through life too fearful to attempt great things, when we can succeed, little by little, step by step, word by word, brick by brick, stroke by stroke? In family research it is person by person. May God bless us to be courageous enough to come back to Him with our quiver full of deeds well done and not as ‘a cloud with no water’ or ‘a tree without fruit’.   By Emil

Sunday Best!

2 Nephi 31:19-21

19. And now, my beloved brethren, after ye have gotten into this strait and narrow path, I would ask if all is done? Behold, I say unto you, Nay; for ye have not come thus far save it were by the word of Christ with unshaken faith in him, relying wholly upon the merits of him who is mighty to save.

20. Wherefore, ye must press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope, and a love of God and of all men. Wherefore, if ye shall press forward feasting on the words of Christ, and endure to the end, behold, thus saith the Father: Ye shall have eternal life.

21. And now, behold, my beloved brethren, this is the way; and there is none other way nor name given under heaven whereby man can be saved in the kingdom of God. And now, behold, this is the doctrine of Christ, and the only and true doctrine of the Father, and of the Son, and the Holy Ghost, which is one God, without end. Amen

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“Press forward with a steadfastness is Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope…” 

I’m going to do it.

Hope your Sunday was the Best! Love, Joy

Happy Birthday!

 I had a great birthday!

I slept in, had lunch with my cousin Vickie, my visiting teachers brought cake and a gift and I had dinner with my family and friends! It was a good day!

Yummy food and lots of love! 

Absolutely beautiful roses from Riley and Janet! 

Thank you!

Sunday Best!

God Bless America!

  “The Constitution of the United States is a glorious standard; it is founded in the wisdom of God. It is a heavenly banner.” -Joseph Smith

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“I reverence the Constitution of the United States as a sacred document. To me its words are akin to the revelations of God, for God has placed his stamp of approval on the Constitution of this land. I testify that the God of heaven sent some of his choicest spirits to lay the foundation of this government, and he has sent other choice spirits—even you who hear my words this day—to preserve it.” -Ezra Taft Bensen

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“I know no safe depository of the ultimate powers of the society but the people themselves; and if we think them not enlightened enough to exercise their control with a wholesome discretion, the remedy is not to take it from them but to inform their discretion by education. This is the true corrective of abuses of Constitutional power.”-Thomas Jefferson

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I love this beautiful land of America! I personally believe God had a hand in the creation of this great nation. We have the privilege of choosing our leaders. I pray we choose Well!

Don’t forget to vote on Tuesday!

Hope your Sunday was the Best! Love, Joy

Sunday Best!

“Today, in a quiet grove at Valley Forge, there is an heroic-sized monument to Washington. He is depicted not astride a charging horse nor overlooking a battlefield of glory, but kneeling in humble prayer, calling upon the God of Heaven for divine help. To gaze upon the statue prompts the mind to remember the oft-heard expression, ‘A man never stands taller than when upon his knees.

“Men and women of integrity, character, and purpose have ever recognized a power higher than themselves and have sought through prayer to be guided by that power. Such has it ever been. So shall it ever be.” (Thomas S. Monson, Ensign, May 1978, “The Prayer of Faith”).

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Years ago I went with my son Alex on a field trip to the Utah State Capitol. We were able to view the above painting by Arnold Friberg, “Prayer at Valley Forge”.

What a beautiful painting.

As we came out of the room where the painting was displayed, standing there talking to people was Arnold Friberg. I was so excited, and we came closer to listen to what he was telling those standing around him.

He was talking about how when he was painting General Washington’s hands, the traditional way to depict praying hands was with the palms together, the fingers extended, and the hands flat against each other. He said he wanted to show the earnest feeling General Washington must was have felt, by putting the hands together with the fingers interlocked and kind of clenched, almost white knuckled. Wow, it changed the way I will view that painting forever! Mr. Friberg was a very nice man, and it was an experience I will never forget.

I am so grateful for George Washington. For his conviction and determination. What a great patriot! I am even more grateful for a loving Father in Heaven who directed the founding leaders of our great nation! God Bless America!

Lights on!

The other night Kelsey and I went to the grocery store. In the parking lot there was a car with it’s light still on, but no one in the car.

I know there are some pretty amazing cars around now that have lights that stay on for a minute or something like that after the driver leaves the car. I don’t have one of those cars, and personally it would drive me nuts. First of all, people would always be telling me, “Hey, your lights are still on!” I know they would, because I do it to other people. Second, I don’t see the sense in it. Why?

So we saw this car with it’s lights still on, and I said to Kelsey, “We better tell someone in the store to announce it so that car battery doesn’t run down.”

We went in and proceeded to shop. Completely forgetting to tell anyone about the car. We were only in the store for about ten minutes and then came out to go home. Kelsey said, “Hey, that car is gone. The one with the lights on.”

I was amazed that all of a sudden, it came back to me. “Whoopsie,” I said to Kelsey, “I try so hard to be a helpful person, but being helpful is only helpful if you’re helpful!”

I won’t be surprised if that quote ends up on pinterest. 🙂

Just a Little Snow Storm?

 It’s hard to believe it’s not even Halloween, and we have snow. It has been snowing on and off since yesterday. Although our family has commented that we’re not quite ready for snow, it looks so beautiful!

We didn’t get the toys put away, and now they’re covered. The daycare kids think it looks so cool! It’s a winter wonderland in fall!!

Twins?

These two darling girls where born on the same day.

They lovingly refer to themselves as “twins.”

I’ve always said, “They held hands on the slippery slide from heaven to earth.” They really aren’t twins in the real sense of the word. You could call them “Sister’s from different misters.”

The one on the left is, of course my “Bonus baby”, Emily. The one on the right is Linsey. Linsey’s mom is one of my best friends, Lilli. Before our baby’s were born, I called my best friend Lilli to tell her I was expecting, and she said, “Guess what? I am expecting too!” And the neatest part is that we were due days apart. By the miracle of modern medicine our baby’s were born on the same day, only about two hours apart.

It has been such a fun thing for Lilli and I to have our baby’s at the same time and raise them together. I totally recommend it. Having friends that go through similar experiences together makes life fun.

Sunday Best!

“There is nothing sad or gloomy about a person who accept the truths of the gospel and incorporates these principles in his daily living. God wants all of his children to be joyous and glad, and we can have this blessing if we are willing to keep his commandments and live by his word in all that we do”

-Howard W. Hunter

Hope your Sunday was the Best!  Love, Joy