Sunday Best!


Doctrine and Covenants 50:24
That which is of God
 is light
and he that receiveth light
and continueth in God, 
receiveth more light
and that light groweth 
brighter and brighter 
until the perfect day.
Hope you Sunday was the Best!! 
Love, Joy

Howzit-Elder Flexy!



Elder Flexy 6:1 -email-

Mama
this week has been crazy!!! we have worked so hard! ya this week was transfers and i’m staying in Durban North but i got i new companion Elder Shumway. He is a cowboy from Wyoming. he is awesome i can tell we are gonna have a good time. ya he isn’t related to the shumways we know but ya.
1 Did you or Elder Martin get transferred?
1.Yes Martin was sent to blomefontain to be a zone leader.
2 If so, who are you with, and/or where are you?
2.Elder Shumway in durban north still.
3 How are your investigators doing?
3.they are doing good hopefully they continue to progress.
4 Have you gained or lost any weight?
4.ya i gained like two KGs but now i’m back down to the same i have always been.
5 Have you had any interesting weather since you’ve been there?
5.just hot weather and humid but its not to unusual.
6 Would you like a copy of the Conference report Ensign?
6.we actually already have the conferance one so we are good thanks.
7 Anything new on pictures?
7.i will buy another memory card and send the other cards home.
8 Do you want me to send you some memory cards? I’m worried you have had to stop taking pictures because of not having any memory.
8.ya i will for sure.
9 Did you receive your Christmas package yet?
9.yep i got it, it was super nice and thanks for the photos they were super nice i loved them.
10 Do the South Africans celebrate Christmas like we do?
10.ya its very similar there is just no snow.
11 Do you have plans for Christmas?
11.not yet but we will do something fun. about my phone call home we are allowed to use skype which would be cheaper and better so if you could get skype that would be great.
12 Do the South Africans play any other sports besides football (soccer)?
12.ya they play Rugby and Cricket as well.
Special question of the week: How would you explain to others that we are Christian? 
13.well that is simple we beleive in Christ and we know that only through him can we be saved.
anyway things are going great with the new companion!! and the work is going great love you. 
                                                                Love Elder Flexy
Baba!!
i’m so glad to hear you are having such a good Christmas season. i hope this season is good for everyone back home. so yesterday we tracted into this very mean man that just wanted to bible bash so we just left. but ya i had a desire to punch him but i’m a missionary and i’m bigger than that so i didn’t. but he chased the spirit away and we had to pray to get it back but other than that its been great.ya having christmas come really does make me miss home a little bit but i’ll be fine. anyway love you Baba
                                                                 Love Elder Flexy
Kelsey
ya waiting for the call is the most exiting thing EVER!!! ya but it will be worth it in the end. ya about the parables that you were talking about maybe when Jesus taught like that it was to teach the meek and humble the ways of the lord. but the rich and prideful could not interpret the parables so only those who were in tune with the spirit could learn the mysteries of god. anyway mission is awesome and you will love it so much. love you
                                                                 Love Elder Flexy

Sunday Best!

We had a lovely 
Creche
display in our neighborhood,
 and I thought I would share some of my pics from it. In case you don’t know what a Creche is, it is a Nativity. 
Here you go!

Do you love it? 
I do!! 
Remember He is the reason for the season!!
Hope your Sunday was the Best!! Love, Joy

Family History Friday (FHF): On Bridges!

My Dad wrote this about Bridges. 
I thought you might enjoy it.  
“On Bridges
Bridges have often held a fascination for me and I believe it is because of the part they have played in
my youth. The bridges that crossed small rivers in my hometown were steel structures built above the
road. The load, placed on the bridge by the vehicles crossing it, was on the steel structure above the road as opposed to sunken supports under the bridge holding it up. There were two steel support structures one on either side of the bridge. They were built such that we could run up one end of the bridge’s steel support, walk
across the top and then run down the other side. We were climbing and/or walking on flat steel
beams approximately 10 inches wide that had rivets about two inches apart on each side of the beam. At the top of the structure, we were about 10-12 feet above the road and, of course, the signswould warn people to, ‘Stay off the Bridge’. They were a constant challenge but a usual way
of bridge travel for us, as youth. When I made my first trip to San Francisco, as a serviceman, and saw the beautiful Golden Gate Bridge, I was awe struck. Fortunately, I was stationed at the Presidio as an MP and had a daily view of the bridge for almost two years. It was some time later, as I matured mentally, that I really contemplated the significance of bridges. It may have been after watching the show, “For Whom the Bell Tolls” that I realized how important bridges were to the movement of military troops and supplies. In converse, the importance of the destruction of bridges in order to prevent the movement of those units. In primitive times rivers and huge ravines were natural barriers to protect one tribal community from another. As commerce and a higher order of society were established the rivers and ravines were unwelcome barriers and bridges were built to span them to allow interaction which would be beneficial to their communities. Pioneer stories tell about the difficulty that they had in crossing rivers; sometimes having to travel several miles along the river to find a place shallow enough to cross without losing life or property. They also tell of the need to spend several precious days descending a steep ravine with their wagons and then ascending the other side. Had there been a bridge, they would have lost very little time. Bridges play such a very important roll in our
society. We probably seldom think about the planning and expense that went into the construction of a bridge. In many cases workers lives were a part of the sacrifice to complete a bridge. I love the poem, 
‘The Bridge Builder’
by Garrett Boon –
An old man, going a lone highway,
Came, at the evening, cold and gray,
To a chasm, vast, and deep, and wide,
Through which was flowing a sullen tide.
The old man crossed in the twilight dim;
The sullen stream had no fears for him;
But he turned, when safe on the other side,
And built a bridge to span the tide.
“Old man,” said a fellow pilgrim, near,
“You are wasting strength with building here;
Your journey will end with the ending day;
You never again must pass this way;
You have crossed the chasm, deep and wide-
Why build you a bridge at the eventide?”
The builder lifted his old gray head:
“Good friend, in the path I have come,” he said,
“There followeth after me today,
A youth, whose feet must pass this way.
This chasm, that has been naught to me,
To that fair-haired youth may a pitfall be.
He, too, must cross in the twilight dim;
Good friend, I am building the bridge for him.”
The poem is not only about a physical structure but of building a better way of life for those descending from us. The old man was a pioneer and as he settled he built bridges, roads, railroads, schools and communities for you and me who came ‘his way’ maybe generations later. Have you ever thought about other kinds of
bridges. There are people who are ‘bridges’ that bring other people together. There are ‘people bridges’ in families; those who make peace and nurture greater love by their tender ways. They tend to make smooth the ravines and rivers of differences that sometimes tend to separate brothers and sisters. Then there are bridge builders between generations, those who make it possible to bridge the gap between we and our ancestors. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is such a bridge builder and thank goodness for the great
work being done to bridge those gaps. The gaps of centuries and world wide distances, oceans, language barriers and sometimes plain indifference to the ‘eternal family’ cause. These are data or information bridges that make it possible for us to bridge the gap between this world and the next; between the living and the deceased. We must thank Heavenly Father every day for all the bridge builders. They who build the bridges that span the rivers, ravines, oceans, data and the human gulfs that exist in this wonderful but complex world we live in. Christ, himself, was the ultimate bridge between us and our return to the place that we came from.”
-Emil
Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

Howzit-Elder Flexy!


Elder Flexy 5:5 -email-

Mama!!!

This week has been sweet!!! we have had some great lessons and some fun experiances. we were in some really scetch areas tracting but it was fun we didn’t get mugged so it was good. this is the last week of the transfer and i’m getting a new companion or a new area or both we find out tommorrow it should be good. me and martin have been companions for four and a half months.
1 You said a while back that someone you were teaching was getting ready for baptism. Are you still teaching them?
1.ya she hasn’t been to church since then so not for a while.
2 Do you feel like the people you are teaching feel the spirit while you’re there?
2.ya for sure the spirit is super strong in most of our lessons.
3 Are you still with Elder Martin?
3.yep!!
4.transfers are this week so this should be cool
5 Any new investigators?
5.not too meny we have been tracting a lot but it doesn’t do much.
6 Are any investigators progressing better than others?
6.ya some are a little faster than others but thats how mission is.
7 What usually holds things up? As far as baptism goes?
7.they will not come to church in this mission if you get them to church they usually get baptised but thats the trick getting them to church.
8 Do they struggle with the word of wisdom?
8.Yep i would say 80% of people in SA have a word of wisdom problem.
9 Are the people in general, nice to you for the most part?
9.ya they are nice just not interested.
10 Do you feel like you have grown spiritually?
10.ya for sure i have grown most in knowledge.
11 How, in what way?
11.in my studies i’ve been learning lots
12 What is chair football?
12.it is like soccer but no teams its every man for himself and he protects himself and you only have three goals on your goal and you are out of the game.
Special question of the week:
13 How would you explain that God loves all of His children, when some live in terrible circumstances? Why do some have a better situation in life than others?

13.i would say because we all are differant so he puts the strong ones in harder situations because they can overcome the trials. and he puts the weak in the cradle of good surcumstances.
anyway things are going great we are still working very hard. i’ll let you know what transfer neews is next week.

                                                                   Love Elder Flexy

  Baba!!
man i missed thanksgiving they of coarse don’t celebrate it her so we didn’t have a feast. hopefully when i get home for thanksgiving all the family will be there. man i miss snow so bad it is so fetching hot down here and if i get transfered to richards bay it will be even HOTTER. ya jazz game sounds awesome i hope you have a good time, maybe Sage can come along and shout “Go Wild Cats!” haha that was freakin funny. ya Brett the shelf maker!!
Wow so we are sitting in the email place and we hear a loud engine outside so we went out and it was a Lambergini Murchilargo its worth about 4 million rands which is about five hundred and seventy thousand dollars that is a big person car!!! anyway keep helping with mendozas and all will be well in zion!!!
                                                                     Love Elder Flexy

Sunday Best!


“Every man and every person who lives in this world wields an influence, whether for good or for evil. It is not what he says alone; it is not alone what he does. 
It is what he is. 
Every man, every person radiates what he or she really is….It is what we are and what we radiate that affects the people around us.” -David O. McKay
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Hope your Sunday was the Best! Love, Joy

Family History Friday (FHF): Family Photos!

Do you have bins of photos? 
I do! 
I have a plan for what I’m going to do with them. I’m going invite my family to have a little “Family Photo Organizing Party”.  We will all sit together and go through the photos. 
This is what else we’ll do:
*Label the photos with the date, (to the best 
of our knowledge), on the back. Be sure to use a pen that is archival quality. It will be labeled “safe for photos”. (Sharpies have an alcohol base and are not good for photos.)

*Put the names of those in the pictures on the back, using the special pen again. 
*Organize them into groups: families, trips, people, year, etc.
*Then we’ll put them into some books with acid-free plastic sleeves.

One day I’ll have all of them in scrapbooks, but until then, we’ll be able to look at the photos, and be able to enjoy them. We’ll also not have to worry about remembering all the particulars about each photo. If you have a selection of older photos too, you might want to have a “Family Photo Organizing Party” with your extended family. See who remembers the important information and get it written down before it’s too late! 😉
Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

Receive All Things With Thankfulness!




Doctrine and Covenants 78:19

19 And he who receiveth all things with thankfulness shall be made glorious; and the things of this earth shall be added unto him, even an hundred fold, yea, more.
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Receiving all things with thankfulness is sometimes a challenge. At least it is for me. (I’m still working on this.) What if we are dealing with a difficult situation? What if we are sick for a period of time? What if we are sad? What if someone we love has left or passed away? What if a choice someone else made has changed our life? The list goes on and on. We all have reasons to be sad or unhappy at times in our life. But remember, we are here to experience challenges and trials, and learn and grow. What makes life wonderful is to find the lesson in each experience and learn it (quickly, if possible), and thank God for the blessing of that experience and move on. When I think of all the struggles or challenges that I have had in my life, I can usually find a blessing associated with that struggle or challenge. Sometimes the blessing is that the struggle is over. I can see how going through tough times has made me more thoughtful of others, when I see them dealing with a challenge. I consider myself a stronger person, than I used to be. I am fairly patient. I feel like I get closer or more in tuned to our Father in Heaven when I’m struggling. The most important lesson I have learned is this. Receive all things 
with thankfulness! 
Choose joy! 
The mind that lives in joy
 does not live in complaint! 
You are in charge of how you feel! 
If your first response to a situation is negative, stop yourself and thank God for the journey. 
Put a song in your heart and be happy!
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Psalm 34:1
I will, bless the Lord at all times: 
his praise shall continually be in my mouth.


Happy 
 Thanksgiving Day  
World! 
Love, Joy