Favorite TV/Movie Quotes! You’ve Got Mail

I absolutely LOVE this movie. It is my happy movie.
You know, the one I watch when I’m feeling kinda blue.
If you haven’t seen it, you should do it.
I think I’ll watch it again today.
Kathleen Kelly: [about “NY152”] He couldn’t possibly be the Rooftop Killer!

Christina Plutzker: Remember when you thought Frank might be the Unibomber?

Kathleen Kelly: That was different.

                                                                         
                                                                          -You’ve Got Mail

Family History Friday (FHF): The Wall.

I actually teach an organizing class for people getting started doing their family history. I’m not always organized, but I do know how to organize.
One of the visuals I use in my class is a
 picture of a wall.
We want to get to the other side of the wall, but the wall is stopping us. The wall represents an obstacle or problem in research. Something preventing us from going any further, or progressing. How will we get over the wall? Well, on this side of the wall, the side where we are, there are many possible ways to get over the wall. There is a pole vaulter, a person holding a large bunch of of helium balloons, someone with a ladder leaning against the wall, someone with dynamite, someone digging under the wall, someone with a jack hammer, two people on a teeter totter, one person standing on shoulders of another, Rapunzel has her hair hanging down to help someone up, a group of cheerleaders are doing a pyramid, someone is on a tractor- ready to break through, a person with springs on their shoes, etc. The purpose of the visual is to tell others-
don’t be discouraged. 
There are many ways to accomplish what you want to do. Sometimes you need to find out that there are other ways you haven’t tried yet. Saying to yourself, “Well, I tried this way, and also that way. What else could I try that I haven’t tried?” 
 There is more than one way to find
what you are looking for.
In fact, you can find the same exact information many different ways. Don’t give up. If I am having a difficult time finding something, and I have tried many different ways to find it, it might be time to take a break from that part of my research for a time.
I’m glad I have the picture of the wall
 to remind me I can do it, you can too!!
Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

5 Faves on the 5th

1- Family!
and family gatherings!
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2-Spring blooms!
New beginnings.
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3Easter!
I am so grateful to
our Savior for
His life,
 His atonement,
 and His ressurection.
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4-This beautiful world!
The opportunity to learn and grow and love!
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5- Life!
Amazingly darling!!!

Family History Friday (FHF): Technology!

My daddy writes these amazing stories about his life, giving all who read a glimpse of his perspective and experiences. I thought I would share another one with you.
On Technology
I was born in the mid-1930’s (1934) (my memories of the way it was then) I never saw an indoor, flushing toilet until I was eight years old. Outhouses were the standard, with either a Montgomery Ward or a Sears and Roebuck mail order catalog for toilet paper. We carried our water from a neighbor’s pump a half block away until dad hand dug a well in our front yard. Mother washed clothes in a washtub using a washboard and a bar of ivory soap. After they were washed and rinsed she would wring the water out of them by hand. They were then hung outside on the clothesline to dry. Her apron had big pockets where she carried wooden clothespins. They were gathered up and brought in after they were dry. They smelled so fresh after being blown in the breeze. Mother would sprinkle them, and roll them up to be ironed. She ironed with a very heavy, hand iron that was heated on top of the cook stove. The iron had to be reheated frequently while she was ironing. We heated our uninsulated house with a potbellied wood stove and mother cooked on a cast iron, wood burning, cook stove. Wood had to be chopped year round for one or both stoves. In the coldest part of the Minnesota winter, both stoves had to be fed wood most of the time to keep the house warm. All of the logs were cut with a hand held bucksaw into one to one-and-a half foot lengths. Then dad used an axe to chop them into smaller chunks for burning. Dad would keep his axe sharp with a spinning grindstone using foot-pedal power. The work was hard but a sharp axe reduced the work considerably. We had an icebox that kept our food from spoiling. Ice was delivered twice a week, as I remember. The iceman, in an old Model A Ford truck, delivered a one foot square block of ice to each house on his route. The block of ice was dropped into the top of the icebox and the food was kept in the bottom section. Since we had no running water in the house, we carried water in buckets to fill an elongated copper tub for our weekly baths. The water was heated on top of the stove and then the tub was placed in the middle of the room. There were five of us kids, at the time, and we all bathed in the same water. The girls bathed first and the boys waited outside until they were through, and then the boys bathed last in somewhat, dirty water. We did have electricity in our house; there were two light bulbs, one upstairs and one in the basement room. There were strings hangingdown from each light that switched on the lights. If they were not turned on before dark the strings were very difficult to find.We had a large console radio that we listened to. There were only a few programs and usually there was more static than program, but we would listen anyway. We also had one of the first RCA phonograph players of our day. We would wind it up and listen to the music recorded on large, round, black Bakelite records. The records would break or get scratched easily and then the music would include a strange sound each time it came around to the scratch. The most technical thing, that I was aware of in that era, was an automobile. My dad had an old 1924-5 Essex, which he could only start with a hand crank from the front of the car, but he could only get it to run part of the time. The only paved roads in the town we lived in were the highway running through town and the main street. The rest of the roads both in town and in the country were gravel and very dusty and bumpy. I don’t remember ever seeing wrist watches.
There may have been some, but pocket watches were very popular. The men that could afford them had nice fancy silver or gold chains that hung in front of their vests with the watch safe and secure in their vest pockets. My grandfather, Judge Emil O. Hanson, was one who wore a chain with his pocket watch in his vest pocket. I have heard the story of a patent clerk who quit his job in 1900, because he said that everything
that was going to be invented had been invented by then. In my early years, we too may have thought that most everything had been invented. After all we had a washboard, an icebox etc. What more could we ask for? There are so many wonderful appliances and other technical things that have been invented since those many years ago. In reality, it almost seems like most everything of value, that has been invented, has been invented in the three quarters of a century since I was born.
I love him so much and am so grateful when I here where he has come from. Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

My Elder!!

My son Alex
got his mission call
yesterday.
He is going to South Africa!!!
Amazing!!
Mission call opening party!!!
Hurry Alex, Hurry!!
Reading…….
There it is!! South Africa, WOW!
Mom can’t help but hug!
So proud!
Here it is!!
We are so please with our son and his decision to serve the Lord
for 2 years!
I love you, Alex!
You’ll be an awesome missionary!!

Family History Friday (FHF): Alot to live up to!

My 3rd great grandfather’s name is
 John H. Fairbanks.
He was a fur trader in the Great Lakes area in the 1800’s. He descended from Jonathan Fairbanks who came to America in the 1600’s and settled in Dedham, Massachusetts. He married my 3rd great grandmother
whose name was
Shaganoshequay
(AKA Mary Sayer). Her father was John Sayer the fur trader and her mother was Bwan equay, a full blood Ojibwe. It has been said of
John H. Fairbanks that he was a master of the Ojibwe language.
In the family history book, “The Fairbanks In America”, it says this about
John H. Fairbanks: Born in New York in 1798. Died in White Earth, Minnesota 1880. He was a useful scout for the American Army during the war of 1812. (That would make him 14 years old at the time). He was in the battle of Lake Champlain, and rendered efficient service during the engagment, for which he received the thanks of his commanding officer. In 1818, when he was 20 years old, he was employed by the American Fur Co., under the late John Jacob Astor. He filled all the positions of trust as chief trader, with profit to his employers and great credit to himself, until the dissolution of the Co. in 1835. He then entered the service of the Northwest Fur Co., successors to the American Fur Co., and remained in the their service until their dissolution in 1848. He was known to every Chippewa Indian in Minnesota, and was master of the Indian languages. He was a man of high worth, strictly temperate in his habits, charitable to a fault, and noted for tender affection for his children. He was the soul of honor, and it has often been said that he had not an enemy in the world.
What a good man!!! I love him. What a legacy, what a life. The Bible says, ” charity is the pure love of Christ”. This book about the Fairbanks says of John, that he was “charitable to a fault”. That is amazing to me. It’s makes me want to be the best “me” I can be.
Discover things about your ancestors that make you want to be a better person. I have. Happy Family History Friday!! Love, Joy

Sin City Suckers?

I went to Las Vegas last week for work,
and found something interesting to
bring back for my kids.
 When I saw these, I laughed!
Check out the name!
(I saw a few suckers there)
I had such a fun time.
Before last week, I had never actually been to Vegas. I’ve just driven through a few times. I don’t gamble, but the hotels and stores were amazing.

Family History Friday (FHF): Times Were Hard!

It doesn’t take long
to write down a memory.
Especially if you write them down one memory at a time.
The following is one of the stories my dad told about his dad, my grandpa. It such a simple, but sweet story of sacrifice and love. It is one of my favorite stories about my grandpa. I never knew him. He died when I was five. We lived in Utah, and grandpa lived in Washington State at the time. Since I didn’t know him, I’m grateful my dad wrote the stories down. Now,
we’ll all know him!!
“I had some good memories of Dad and of some of the sacrifices he made for his family. I can remember as a little boy in the late 1930’s, the effects of the depression were still very much apparent. They were hard times, and Dad just made enough money each day to take care of the expenses of the day. There was never any extra, and so each night after work, Dad brought home the groceries that Mom made supper with. In the wintertime, it was especially hard. Dad would have to walk home from work at the cleaning and tailor shop where he worked and stop on the way to get a few groceries. We lived about a mile west of town along Highway 10. I remember as a child, along with some of my brothers and sisters, scratching the ice off the inside of the window so we could see out, and then pressing our noses against the window to see if we could see Dad coming down the highway. Minnesota winters were very cold and when Dad walked in the door he was quite a sight. The cold wind would cause his eyes to water, but because he had groceries in his hands he couldn’t wipe the tears from his eyes and so they would form icicles on his eyelashes. His nose, too, would run and icicles would also hang from his nose.
(This isn’t grandpa, it’s Ernest Shackleton, but notice the frosty beard)

Mom would have her wood stove all fired up to cook one of her wonderful suppers out of the simplest fair. They were difficult times, but I have a lot of fond memories from them.”

I think it is amazing that grandpa had to work each day for the food grandma would prepare for the family to eat that night. My grandparents were strong people. Like I always say….if they can do what they did, I can do what I need to do in my life. I love them, I love grandpa. Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

My Momma!

My Mom on her wedding day! Beautiful!

Today is my Mom‘s birthday. She has lived a long and amazing life. I asked my grandma once how my mom was as child, and she said she was always a sweet child. I believe that. She has always been a sweet momma. When I was a teenager I had the usual struggles, (I call the teen years, especially jr. high, the arm pit of life.) I remember my mom sitting at the foot of my bed, and listening to me. She would encourage and counsel me. She loved me as I struggled along. She has always been a good listener. Growing up, she was my always there for me. And, as I have become a grown momma myself, she continues to be a source of encouragement and love. I can always count on her to build me up and tell me what an good mom I am.
She is super creative and ambitious. She is a great example to me of getting a lot done. She volunteers in the community and teachs classes about doing your family history. She never stops learning and reading, then sharing it with others. While other people her age have slowed down, she hasn’t. If I live to be at least her age, I have 30 years to contribute to society. To find and complete all of my life missions. I have alot of things I’d still like to do, and she is great example of “doing”! I feel so blessed and thankful to have such a wonderful mother. She is the best mom for me.
Happy Birthday, Momma!!