Shelter is good!

We recently had the most amazingly “windy” storm pass through our neighborhood. I don’t mind a breeze, but this was a wind! As Winnie the Pooh would say, it was “a blustery day!” Rain is good and I usually don’t mind it. Everything smells clean and fresh after the rain. I love a good snow storm, especially if I don’t have to go anywhere. But the wind scares me a little bit. Maybe because we have 11 really tall pine trees around our home. I don’t know, maybe it’s because sometimes I feel like I’m in “The Wizard of Oz”, and the house is going to lift right up and blow away. It’s a scary time to me. Some time during the middle of this windy storm, I was thinking how blessed we are to have a home. Our home has protected us from all kinds of weather. It has kept us warm in the winter, cool in the summer, and dry when there’s rain or snow. We can lock the door and feel safe. We can put on our pj’s, and wander around, and no one cares. While I was thinking about how blessed we are to have a home, it hit me that our home has sheltered us from other storms too. These storms that are not always visible, but can be every bit as devastating.  These storms come along unexpectedly. If we were to think of our home and the structure of it, different things go together to make it. There are beams, 2X4’s, sheet rock, tile, brick, siding, a roof, and windows, etc. All of these things, and more, are what makes the home solid and strong, but not indestructible. In the same way, there are different things that make our home solid and strong. Things we can’t see. The first would be desire. To desire a strong and solid home would motivate anyone to do whatever it takes to make it that way. Love, maybe even charity, would be very important. Patience, and compassion. Kindness, sharing what we have. Even selflessness. Hard work. No one wants to work alone. I believe that a family, to be solid and strong, must believe in God. If we believe in God, we want to live a life of devotion to Him. To give glory to Him by the way we live, and act, as a family, and a people. If we build a solid and strong home in this way, it can protect us from the storms that will come. Storms like: loss of a job, wayward children, substance abuse, etc. Some of the storms we may deal with are huge! Some are just the daily struggles that we all have. They can wear you down too. That doesn’t mean we won’t be a little scared from time to time, when we hear or see the storms around us. We will know that we have done what it takes to have a strong home. We will believe, and know we are safe. 

Howzit-Elder Flexy!


Elder Flexy 2:4 -email-

Mom,

Ya i’m so glad tasha is doing great. things are going good the work is really slow but we are working our butts off! anyway about your questions. I have not mailed a letter yet we haven’t really had time. we work all day and when we get home we just crash its hard work but its fun. And no i haven’t received any letters yet but its all good. our area is mostly city and large town areas tracting in our area doesn’t really work so we just find near members homes. My companion is awesome me and him are probably the most obediant missionaries in the mission. but we still have fun. the accents are pretty sweet but the older indians have super thick accents and they speak really fast so you can’t really understand them. who knew you need the gift of tongues to understand english. 🙂 ya i do stand out a lot people just stare at me sometimes its kinda creepy. we have some investigators that are doing really well they are progressing. we have had some powerful lessons. we have had some really disgusting curry dishes man they are aweful but we eat them anyway but there is this really good stuff its kinda like mashed potatoes but its called pop its pretty good. anyway things are going great i’m learning Zulu and Sign language too anyway better go love ya
                                       Love Elder Flexy


Dad,

Thats awesome to hear all things are going good at home so we had our first Zone Conferance it was six hours long!!!!!! ya but we are learning a lot. we hear that Elder Holland is coming to our mission and we will get to meet him!! but thats kinda scary cause last time he came he send some elders home cause he knew they werent obediant. anyway love you Baba.
                                        Love Elder Flexy

Sunday Best!

“Who are we? 
We are children of God. 
Our potential 
is unlimited. 
Our inheritance is sacred.
 May we always honor 
that heritage—
in every thought and deed.”
-Russell M. Nelson
Hope your Sunday was the Best! 
Love, Joy

Family History Friday (FHF): On Family History!

“We must not be weary in well doing.

 Should we feel our 

contribution in this sacred 

work is small or insignificant, 

we remember that ‘the worth 

of souls is great in the sight of God.’

D&C 18:10

Is it any wonder that when we 

receive a testimony of this 

work, we desire to give so much 

to its progress and its 

advancement? Barriers evaporate 

as mists before the morning 

sun. When we perform our work 

with abiding faith, we will 


qualify for the desired blessings.”
                                                     
        -Thomas S. Monson

Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

Howzit! Elder Flexy!

Elder Flexy 2:3 -email-
Mama, things are going good here the work here is really really slow but the people are learning slowly and steadily. my area has very rich and very poor. my companion said that it has the most white people which is funny cause there are very few whites. We talk to a lot of muslims, and Hindus. key word being talk because we are not supposed to teach them. Good job on quiting pop!!!!!! thats great! ya playing soccer is super fun and no we don’t use shin guards but the way they play down here is differant. Not that the rules are differant but they don’t kick very hard at all so you don’t have to worry. ya the food here is good one of the elders in our zone got some american candy from home and it was so good!!!! I’m starting to like curry its pretty yummy stuff if its made right. anyway i’m finnishing up the book of 2 Nephi its super confusing. anyway we don’t have any baptisms yet but they will come anyway gotta go. Love, Elder Flexy   

Favorite TV/Movie Quotes! Sleepless in Seattle

-Sleepless in Seattle-




Doctor Marcia Fieldstone: People who truly loved once are far more likely to love again. Sam, do you think there’s someone out there you could love as much as your wife? 

Sam Baldwin: Well, Dr. Marcia Fieldstone, that’s hard to imagine. 

Doctor Marcia Fieldstone: What are you going to do? 

Sam Baldwin: Well, I’m gonna get out of bed every morning… breathe in and out all day long. Then, after a while I won’t have to remind myself to get out of bed every morning and breathe in and out… and, then after a while, I won’t have to think about how I had it great and perfect for a while. 

Doctor Marcia Fieldstone: Tell me what was so special about your wife? 

Sam Baldwin: Well, how long is your program? Well, it was a million tiny little things that, when you added them all up, they meant we were supposed to be together… and I knew it. I knew it the very first time I touched her. It was like coming home… only to no home I’d ever known… I was just taking her hand to help her out of a car and I knew. It was like… magic. 

Sunday Best!

Matthew 5:16

Let your light so shine
 before men, that they may see
 your good works,
 and glorify your 
Father which is in heaven.
—————————–
We are all examples! Some good, some bad. We might as well be a good one. Abraham Lincoln said, “Whatever you are be a good one”. I agree. If we have blessed with a testimony of Christ and our Eternal Father, we have an obligation to them, to stand up. To be set on a candlestick for all to see. I know to me, that sounds very intimidating. I’m not perfect, why would I want others watching me and how I live my life? Whether I like it or not, people will watch me, and my example. So, if I want God to be glorified, I must do my best. I must “Let my light shine”. 
Hope your Sunday was the Best! Love, Joy 

Family History Friday (FHF): First water skier?


When John Howland came with the other pilgrims to America. He had quite an adventure. He was just a young man in his early 20’s.
What an opportunity!
 To come to a new world and 
start a life of his own
While the Mayflower was at sea a storm came, John Howland fell off the ship. It wasn’t like it is now. If you fell off a ship now, they could just turn around and come get you. No, this was a ship with sails and turning around would be almost impossible, especially in a storm and how would they find him, even if they were able to turn around? Luckily, or by divine intervention, John was able to catch hold of the topsail halyards and was rescued. When I spoke with friends today about this story, someone said, “Hey, he was the first water skier!” Funny! His story is an amazing one. He married Elizabeth Tilley, after her parents both died the first winter. Years ago our family had the opportunity to visit Plymouth, Massachusetts. What a great trip!! The things we heard, and the things we saw, will always stay with us. We are so thankful for the pilgrims. If you took the time to look, to see all of John Howlands descendants. You would be amazed. If he had just fallen of the ship and not been recovered, so much would be different. I’m glad he caught hold of the halyards. I’m sure his descendants are too! Heres a list of some of them:
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Joseph Smith
Dr. Spock
George H. W. Bush  
George W. Bush
Sarah Palin
Christopher Lloyd
Humphrey Bogart
Alec Baldwin
My friend Julie
and My darlin!
Happy Family History Friday! 
Love, Joy

Lessons!

On July 25th, it was the seventh anniversary of my oldest brother’s passing. He was just 46 years old. Losing him was quite a surprise. We have always been a close family. We had Sunday dinner together for years and years, even after we were all adults, and living away from our parent’s home. We spent time together, hiking and picnicking. He had been divorced and was living on his own. His three kids, lived with their mom. He was always content and happy to be in the mountains. It wasn’t uncommon at all for him to go fishing with his dog, Gordon, at least once a week. He was a happy person most of the time, and mostly fun to be around unless he was teasing me. Yes, he still teased me. He was always ready with a joke or funny story. 
While hiking with several family members, including one of his sons, he just fell on the trail. The family gathered around. Everyone filled with the shock of what had just happened. My nephew, his son, ran down the trail hoping to get a signal on his cell phone. My brothers and dad took turns giving him CPR and carrying him. They made their way down the trail. After the paramedics arrived, everyone realized that what they were hoping didn’t happen, did happen. My brother was gone. His short life was over. My parents were amazingly strong. But as my mom says, “Parents just shouldn’t have to bury their kids.” In the hours after his death, our family started noticing small miracles, tender mercies that the Lord had seen fit to give us during this hard time. The lesson I learned is this. God is always there. Even in the hardest times. We just need to notice Him! When my brother died, he was in the mountains. He was not at home alone, he was with our family doing what he loved, being outside. He was gone in a moment, not after years of pain and sickness. We knew he loved us, and he knew we loved him. He is buried where my mom and dad will be buried, in the same grave with them and not alone. I believe he is with others on the other side. Family who have passed on before him, and love him too. We miss him, but we are thankful that we had 46 years with him. Look for God, He is all around us. He loves us and even let’s us have sad times. These times help us to be better people. 
In memory of my big brother, Brian. Love you!

Howzit! Elder Flexy!


Elder Flexy 2:2  -email-

Dear Mom,

     … Anyway our area is booming with new investigators! last week we found 3 new investigators but this week we got 15 crazy huh! ya the people listen but they usually just don’t want to change so the work is slow but good. also I’m learning some Zulu its a pretty cool and hard some of the noises they make are really hard to learn. My companion is from Pretoria which is in south africa we are getting along well and the work is going well. ya our area is just north of durban along the beach which stinks cause we can’t swim but oh well its a beautiful place. our appartment is really good and small. All i’ve really eaten since i got here is lunch meat sandwiches and pasta with Parmesan cheese. haha ya we have p-day till six o clock then we do work for the rest of the day. ya things are going good the weather here is nice. People keep saying its biting cold and i just laugh cause its not even close to cold. Anyway I’m doing great…       
                                                                                                          Love, Elder (Flexy)