Family History Friday (FHF): Sayer’s Post!

My third great grandfather’s name is 
John Sayer
I have talked about him before, he was a fur trader in the late 1700’s and early 1800’s. He has an amazing history. He came from England. He married an Ojibwa woman and ran a post in Minnesota. He also wrote a journal. This journal has turned out to be quite famous. It is a written history of the day to day, life happenings at a fur trading post. Some people might mistakenly call a post “a fort”. But a fort was built to keep the Native Americans out. A post was all about interacting and doing business with them. The Ojibwa would trap the animals and bring the pelts to the post to trade them for goods. The journal is available for purchase. It is quite interesting to read. But not only that, John Sayer’s post is available to visit. It was and is located on the Snake River in Minnesota. And has been excavated and is a living history museum. 
You can read about it here!
Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

My Dream Come True!

Mission call opening party!
Kelsey 
(aka: my dream come true!)
 with her mission call! 
Where will she go?
(See Aunt Lisa and Uncle Larry on Skype in the background?) 
Lots of friends and family here,
 to see her open her mission call!
Reading!
“You are hereby called to serve 
as a missionary for 
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints…”
Crying!! What a sweetheart!
Smiling!!
 It’s Texas, Ft. Worth-
 Spanish speaking!!!
 Well, that is awesome!! 
I was a missionary in Texas when I was young!
 I’m so excited that she will grow to love Texas, 
like I do!!

“The stars at night, are big and bright!!
deep in the heart of Texas!!”
We feel so blessed! We will have two missionaries now!

Family Party!!

Natasha getting her gift from cousin Summer!
Gettin’ the vittles! 

Wendy and Melinda!
Scott, Stacy and Ian!

Ok, it can’t be Christmas time! Where’s the snow? 

Andrew, expecting a ball! and Kelsey!
Nancy getting instructions on her new digital camera!
Emily, Erin and Kiefer, cousins!
I love a family party!!

Howzit-Elder Flexy!

Alex- the day he got his mission call!


Elder Flexy 6:2 -email-

Mama!!
Wow we have worked so freakin hard this week!! we tracked for five and a half hours the other day it was crazy! but it has been great we had a christmas party for the ward it was pretty fun. we also saw a life size nativity scene with black people sculptures. so ya things are going great.
So here are a few questions: (Emily and Kelsey helped)

1 Is it hard to follow the mission rules?
1.some are easier than others.
2 What color is your toothbrush?
2.its blue
3 Are you flossing?
3.yep every day (usually)
4 Is your companion cute?
4.he has a girlfriend so that doesn’t matter HAHA
5 How do you wash your clothes, is it a washing machine like that time we went to the laundry mat?
5.we have a washer but we have to hang dry them.
6 How do you decide what or how to teach?
6.well we have study and planning time to discuss those things with your comp.
7 Do you ever feel discouraged or upset when people don’t listen?
7.not anymore i used to, but now it just, is what it is.
8 How are you and Elder Shumway doing?
8.he is doing well he dosent like our bathroom but he will be ok.
9 What do you usually eat for breakfast?
9.toast with PB and Nuttella
10 Do you often have dinner appointments? How often?
10.sometimes maybe twice a week.
11 Who do you get letters from at home?
11. you guys, Jess, Carlie, and Geni
12 How do you respond when someone is attacking our church?
12.well we say “we aren’t here to fight have a nice day.”
Special question of the week:
13 How do you explain the Godhead to people on your mission? What scriptures do you use?
13.well we just explain that they are three separate beings but are one in mind and we usually don’t have to use scripts for that but when we do its Jesus’s baptism.
anyway things are going awesome we might have some baptisms soon!! and ill get some pictures home to you soon. love you
Love Elder Flexy

Baba!
thats awesome to hear about the party and you wrestling those kids they need to be roughed up a bit. so i have a confession i’ve wrestled four guys in the ward and they are all bigger than me but i won all four it was pretty fun. is riley getting tough? i hope so i want a challenge when i get home. ya that lesson is a good one. and i always just look at the fact that my leaders can actually see better than me so blind obediance is not even accurate in most situations. but ya things are going great here in SA. tell nathan hi for me. love you
Love Elder Flexy

Sunday Best!


Doctrine and Covenants 50:24
That which is of God
 is light
and he that receiveth light
and continueth in God, 
receiveth more light
and that light groweth 
brighter and brighter 
until the perfect day.
Hope you Sunday was the Best!! 
Love, Joy

Howzit-Elder Flexy!



Elder Flexy 6:1 -email-

Mama
this week has been crazy!!! we have worked so hard! ya this week was transfers and i’m staying in Durban North but i got i new companion Elder Shumway. He is a cowboy from Wyoming. he is awesome i can tell we are gonna have a good time. ya he isn’t related to the shumways we know but ya.
1 Did you or Elder Martin get transferred?
1.Yes Martin was sent to blomefontain to be a zone leader.
2 If so, who are you with, and/or where are you?
2.Elder Shumway in durban north still.
3 How are your investigators doing?
3.they are doing good hopefully they continue to progress.
4 Have you gained or lost any weight?
4.ya i gained like two KGs but now i’m back down to the same i have always been.
5 Have you had any interesting weather since you’ve been there?
5.just hot weather and humid but its not to unusual.
6 Would you like a copy of the Conference report Ensign?
6.we actually already have the conferance one so we are good thanks.
7 Anything new on pictures?
7.i will buy another memory card and send the other cards home.
8 Do you want me to send you some memory cards? I’m worried you have had to stop taking pictures because of not having any memory.
8.ya i will for sure.
9 Did you receive your Christmas package yet?
9.yep i got it, it was super nice and thanks for the photos they were super nice i loved them.
10 Do the South Africans celebrate Christmas like we do?
10.ya its very similar there is just no snow.
11 Do you have plans for Christmas?
11.not yet but we will do something fun. about my phone call home we are allowed to use skype which would be cheaper and better so if you could get skype that would be great.
12 Do the South Africans play any other sports besides football (soccer)?
12.ya they play Rugby and Cricket as well.
Special question of the week: How would you explain to others that we are Christian? 
13.well that is simple we beleive in Christ and we know that only through him can we be saved.
anyway things are going great with the new companion!! and the work is going great love you. 
                                                                Love Elder Flexy
Baba!!
i’m so glad to hear you are having such a good Christmas season. i hope this season is good for everyone back home. so yesterday we tracted into this very mean man that just wanted to bible bash so we just left. but ya i had a desire to punch him but i’m a missionary and i’m bigger than that so i didn’t. but he chased the spirit away and we had to pray to get it back but other than that its been great.ya having christmas come really does make me miss home a little bit but i’ll be fine. anyway love you Baba
                                                                 Love Elder Flexy
Kelsey
ya waiting for the call is the most exiting thing EVER!!! ya but it will be worth it in the end. ya about the parables that you were talking about maybe when Jesus taught like that it was to teach the meek and humble the ways of the lord. but the rich and prideful could not interpret the parables so only those who were in tune with the spirit could learn the mysteries of god. anyway mission is awesome and you will love it so much. love you
                                                                 Love Elder Flexy

Sunday Best!

We had a lovely 
Creche
display in our neighborhood,
 and I thought I would share some of my pics from it. In case you don’t know what a Creche is, it is a Nativity. 
Here you go!

Do you love it? 
I do!! 
Remember He is the reason for the season!!
Hope your Sunday was the Best!! Love, Joy

Family History Friday (FHF): On Bridges!

My Dad wrote this about Bridges. 
I thought you might enjoy it.  
“On Bridges
Bridges have often held a fascination for me and I believe it is because of the part they have played in
my youth. The bridges that crossed small rivers in my hometown were steel structures built above the
road. The load, placed on the bridge by the vehicles crossing it, was on the steel structure above the road as opposed to sunken supports under the bridge holding it up. There were two steel support structures one on either side of the bridge. They were built such that we could run up one end of the bridge’s steel support, walk
across the top and then run down the other side. We were climbing and/or walking on flat steel
beams approximately 10 inches wide that had rivets about two inches apart on each side of the beam. At the top of the structure, we were about 10-12 feet above the road and, of course, the signswould warn people to, ‘Stay off the Bridge’. They were a constant challenge but a usual way
of bridge travel for us, as youth. When I made my first trip to San Francisco, as a serviceman, and saw the beautiful Golden Gate Bridge, I was awe struck. Fortunately, I was stationed at the Presidio as an MP and had a daily view of the bridge for almost two years. It was some time later, as I matured mentally, that I really contemplated the significance of bridges. It may have been after watching the show, “For Whom the Bell Tolls” that I realized how important bridges were to the movement of military troops and supplies. In converse, the importance of the destruction of bridges in order to prevent the movement of those units. In primitive times rivers and huge ravines were natural barriers to protect one tribal community from another. As commerce and a higher order of society were established the rivers and ravines were unwelcome barriers and bridges were built to span them to allow interaction which would be beneficial to their communities. Pioneer stories tell about the difficulty that they had in crossing rivers; sometimes having to travel several miles along the river to find a place shallow enough to cross without losing life or property. They also tell of the need to spend several precious days descending a steep ravine with their wagons and then ascending the other side. Had there been a bridge, they would have lost very little time. Bridges play such a very important roll in our
society. We probably seldom think about the planning and expense that went into the construction of a bridge. In many cases workers lives were a part of the sacrifice to complete a bridge. I love the poem, 
‘The Bridge Builder’
by Garrett Boon –
An old man, going a lone highway,
Came, at the evening, cold and gray,
To a chasm, vast, and deep, and wide,
Through which was flowing a sullen tide.
The old man crossed in the twilight dim;
The sullen stream had no fears for him;
But he turned, when safe on the other side,
And built a bridge to span the tide.
“Old man,” said a fellow pilgrim, near,
“You are wasting strength with building here;
Your journey will end with the ending day;
You never again must pass this way;
You have crossed the chasm, deep and wide-
Why build you a bridge at the eventide?”
The builder lifted his old gray head:
“Good friend, in the path I have come,” he said,
“There followeth after me today,
A youth, whose feet must pass this way.
This chasm, that has been naught to me,
To that fair-haired youth may a pitfall be.
He, too, must cross in the twilight dim;
Good friend, I am building the bridge for him.”
The poem is not only about a physical structure but of building a better way of life for those descending from us. The old man was a pioneer and as he settled he built bridges, roads, railroads, schools and communities for you and me who came ‘his way’ maybe generations later. Have you ever thought about other kinds of
bridges. There are people who are ‘bridges’ that bring other people together. There are ‘people bridges’ in families; those who make peace and nurture greater love by their tender ways. They tend to make smooth the ravines and rivers of differences that sometimes tend to separate brothers and sisters. Then there are bridge builders between generations, those who make it possible to bridge the gap between we and our ancestors. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is such a bridge builder and thank goodness for the great
work being done to bridge those gaps. The gaps of centuries and world wide distances, oceans, language barriers and sometimes plain indifference to the ‘eternal family’ cause. These are data or information bridges that make it possible for us to bridge the gap between this world and the next; between the living and the deceased. We must thank Heavenly Father every day for all the bridge builders. They who build the bridges that span the rivers, ravines, oceans, data and the human gulfs that exist in this wonderful but complex world we live in. Christ, himself, was the ultimate bridge between us and our return to the place that we came from.”
-Emil
Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

Howzit-Elder Flexy!


Elder Flexy 5:5 -email-

Mama!!!

This week has been sweet!!! we have had some great lessons and some fun experiances. we were in some really scetch areas tracting but it was fun we didn’t get mugged so it was good. this is the last week of the transfer and i’m getting a new companion or a new area or both we find out tommorrow it should be good. me and martin have been companions for four and a half months.
1 You said a while back that someone you were teaching was getting ready for baptism. Are you still teaching them?
1.ya she hasn’t been to church since then so not for a while.
2 Do you feel like the people you are teaching feel the spirit while you’re there?
2.ya for sure the spirit is super strong in most of our lessons.
3 Are you still with Elder Martin?
3.yep!!
4.transfers are this week so this should be cool
5 Any new investigators?
5.not too meny we have been tracting a lot but it doesn’t do much.
6 Are any investigators progressing better than others?
6.ya some are a little faster than others but thats how mission is.
7 What usually holds things up? As far as baptism goes?
7.they will not come to church in this mission if you get them to church they usually get baptised but thats the trick getting them to church.
8 Do they struggle with the word of wisdom?
8.Yep i would say 80% of people in SA have a word of wisdom problem.
9 Are the people in general, nice to you for the most part?
9.ya they are nice just not interested.
10 Do you feel like you have grown spiritually?
10.ya for sure i have grown most in knowledge.
11 How, in what way?
11.in my studies i’ve been learning lots
12 What is chair football?
12.it is like soccer but no teams its every man for himself and he protects himself and you only have three goals on your goal and you are out of the game.
Special question of the week:
13 How would you explain that God loves all of His children, when some live in terrible circumstances? Why do some have a better situation in life than others?

13.i would say because we all are differant so he puts the strong ones in harder situations because they can overcome the trials. and he puts the weak in the cradle of good surcumstances.
anyway things are going great we are still working very hard. i’ll let you know what transfer neews is next week.

                                                                   Love Elder Flexy

  Baba!!
man i missed thanksgiving they of coarse don’t celebrate it her so we didn’t have a feast. hopefully when i get home for thanksgiving all the family will be there. man i miss snow so bad it is so fetching hot down here and if i get transfered to richards bay it will be even HOTTER. ya jazz game sounds awesome i hope you have a good time, maybe Sage can come along and shout “Go Wild Cats!” haha that was freakin funny. ya Brett the shelf maker!!
Wow so we are sitting in the email place and we hear a loud engine outside so we went out and it was a Lambergini Murchilargo its worth about 4 million rands which is about five hundred and seventy thousand dollars that is a big person car!!! anyway keep helping with mendozas and all will be well in zion!!!
                                                                     Love Elder Flexy