“My Ears Are Going Crazy!”

My darlin, Brett was the scout master for years.

In case you don’t know what that means, it means he met with all of the Boy Scouts in our neighborhood at least once a week to work on merit badges. Not only that, he would camp once a month with them on a Friday night to Saturday, and he would spend a week every summer, using his vacation time from work, to go to scout camp with the boys. He always seemed a little stressed about it, but I also know that he absolutely loved it.

On the way to camp one year, they were all talking in the car about what they were going to do once they arrived at camp.

Alex said, “My ears are going crazy, because I’m hearing such good stuff!”

He was so excited to get to camp and have fun, he could hardly wait. And that’s exactly what he did, have fun!!

What a cute kid!

The Kid

                                       Rusty Duritz: So, I’m forty, I’m not married,                                            I don’t fly jets, and I don’t have a dog? I grow up to be a loser.

What a cute show!!

Gratitude Footboard!?!

My sweetheart and I made this darling

message board.

It is attached to the wall by our back door. We took an old foot board that went to a twin bed, cut off the legs and painted it antique white with chalkboard paint on the middle of the panel.

I love it!!

                                       It’s a great place to put a seasonal message,                                             a wonderful thought, or an “I love you” to a family member.

We had to find some studs to anchor it to the wall, because we plan to use it often for hanging coats and such. I thought is turned out cute!

 

Totally “Fort Worth” It!

Hermana Kesley 9:4 -email-

Dear family,

This week was pretty good. It flew by so fast! Sister Q. is going home next Tuesday. 🙁 I think I will probably cry. Yesterday, when we were in Relief Society, Sister Q. got up and bore her testimony. While she was up there, I started thinking about it, and realized that once her mission is over, she won’t get to do the things we do everyday anymore. Then I started thinking about when I am going to have to go home, and it will be really hard for me. And I started to have a little tear, but it went away really fast. I’m getting to the point where I want to be a missionary for the rest of my life, and I don’t ever want to stop doing this. 🙂 But I know there will be a point when I will have to go home, and live real life again.

Anyway, these are some things that happened this week.

Monday: We had two great family home evenings. One with some new investigators we have (there names are A. and M.), and the other with some investigators we were teaching for a while (M. and G.), but they weren’t progressing before, but then they randomly came to church (I think I wrote about that before). Anyway, they were super awesome! We are way excited for them. We are hoping that the Family Home Evenings helped them out, and that they learned something new.

Tuesday: We helped A. and M. move out of his sister’s house to an apartment. It was pretty cool, because we had a member with a truck come and help us, and him and the investigator hit it off pretty good, so now he has fellowship! We are so excited for that.

Wednesday: We dropped one of our investigators, J., because he is not progressing. We were sad, because we have taught him for a very long time, and have gotten really close to him. But we received an immediate blessing, because one of our other investigators that we had kind of dropped, but told her to call us when she wanted to learn more, called us literally two minutes later. It was amazing. Sometimes, we have to tough things, but just around the corner is something better. We also taught this kid, A. He is 17, and is super involved with his church, but when we taught him about the Book of Mormon, he was super excited about it. He told us was going to read it, and told us that if he knows that this is true then he will get baptized again (he was baptized when he was a baby in the Catholic church). He also said he will have to share this with everyone. We were way excited about that. 🙂 Hopefully, he will be a missionary in a couple years. 🙂

Thursday: Today, I was sick like Sister Q. was last Thursday (kind of). I never threw up anything, but my stomach was super upset. We aren’t really sure what was going on, but it has been passed around to like all the missionaries in our district. But I think we all over it now. We went to Young Mens in the evening, because we took A. to introduce him to the Young Men leaders and all the other guys. He seemed to like it, but he is super quiet, so it was hard to get him to talk to anyone. But one of the Young Women has a crush on him, so she will definitely fellowship him. Ha ha! 🙂 🙂 P.S. Mom: I’m glad you had a great birthday! 🙂 Sorry I couldn’t do anything really for you. 🙁 But it seems like you got pretty well taken care of. 😉

Friday: We met a really cool girl tracting, but because she is english and single we had to give her to the Singles Ward sisters. 🙁 But it’s okay, they’ll take good care of her. Later on, we drove the bike elders to dinner, and we were discussing how the other elder who drives the other car is kind of a crazy driver. I was like, “Aren’t you glad I don’t drive like Elder E.?” And they were like, “Yeah. In fact, you drive so good, that we are aren’t even wearing our seat belts right now.” And I was like, “What?! Put them on!” Those crazy elders. 🙂 They want me to get my driving privileges taken away.

Saturday: We set up an activity (kind of like a Family Home Evening), with some of our recent converts and investigators, and it turned out to be a bust, because only 1 recent convert came, and she only came out of pity for us. 🙁 It was sad, but we’ll probably try again another time to do it, but let more people know about it.

Sunday: So we had a baptism yesterday! It was the most stressful baptism I have ever had. It was for an overaged child (a kid who is above 8 years old and hasn’t been baptized yet), and he had to get baptized 3x! Two of the other elders that are serving in our ward were supposed to be the witnesses, and the step dad of the kid was baptizing him wrong, and they didn’t catch it. After the actual baptism, they pulled the plug for the font, and we grabbed the elders and were like, “We have to do it again. He didn’t do it right.” The elders stood in the hall talking to us for a while before they finally talked to the dad, and we got the font refilled, and did it again. It was so crazy. We just had to laugh, so we didn’t cry. It was so not fun. But it is over now, and he is baptized for real, so we’re good. 🙂

Mom: I really like the story of the ten virgins. I actually have like an insert that talks about that and how the ten wise virgins weren’t being selfish when they wouldn’t share their oil, they just couldn’t  because spiritual preparedness can only be gained over time through reading the scriptures, praying, and coming to church. I’m not sure if it is the same one you had, but it’s really good. Sometimes, I wish I had it in Spanish though so I could use it as a spiritual thought at dinners and stuff. But yeah, that is a good story.

From Brett: Now for my side of the story, Joy went to dinner with her dad, the day before her B-day and during that time I called family and friends and made a plan for 7:00PM. I dropped off a key at Cederlofs. We both worked on the tenth. We drove to Bella’s (cause it is close and we didn’t have a lot of time) I could tell your Mom was expecting friends to meet us there. She looked a little dejected when she realized it was just going to be us. So we ate but didn’t talk too much. (my shrimp and crab chimichanga was delicious, and filling) Our waitress wasn’t the greatest but got the job done eventually. We finished eating at about 6:35 and needed to kill about a half hour so I ate more, very slowly. Then I said I needed to go potty which I took my time doing, then I slipped outside and called Chad and asked how many people were there, he said about 12 so I told him we would be there in about 10 minutes. As we drove home we were passing our house and Dustin H. was walking and your Mom said, “Is that Dustin? I said I don’t know and rounded the corner then your mom says, “That looks like my mom and dad’s car (parked by the mail box)” I said again, “I don’t know.” I opened the door and we walked into the kitchen and there on the hutch was a large pink cup of water (it turned out to be Wendy’s) and Joy said, “Who’s is that?” “Idk”.  We took a few more steps and Joy saw people and they yelled, “Surprise!!” Even after all the clues, she had no idea. It was really funny. As it turned out there were about 25 people (quite a few showed up while we were driving home) Guess what your Mom wanted for her birthday? give up? To be able to park the van in the garage (I wish she would have said a thousand dollars it would have been easier! just kidding) Riley and I got some stuff moved and got the van in. Not much other news this week. Oh I get to teach Priesthood next week, they must be desperate. Anyway I gotta go Love you both have a great week Love DAD.

Dad: Ha ha! Wow I can’t believe you did that. And that Mom didn’t suspect anything. 🙂 You must have done pretty good. 🙂 But yeah, that is way cool. I’m glad there was a good turn out. Ha ha. I also like that she wanted to be able to park her car in the garage for her birthday present. Oh, by the way, when I get home, the present I want is a massage for my last two birthdays. 🙂 That’s it. 🙂 But yeah that’s awesome.

Riley: Did you get my letter I sent? If you did, I am expecting a reply in the next week or so. Otherwise, I am going to be a little upset.

From Emily: Hey my cute missionaries!! Life is good and all it’s been a crazy week but I’ve had so much fun and I just wanted to say thanks for working really hard and doing such a great job I know the Lord appreciates you guys and all you do. It takes a lot to spend a whole two years or year and a half out of your life to just focus on other people in the Lord but really what else would be more productive?! I think it’s amazing and know you guys are making the most of it. I hope you guys are happy and doing so good cause I wouldn’t want anything else for you two! Anyway today we had a meeting after church about family history and how we as youth need to get more involved I think it’s very cool. But yeah I’m so sorry this was short, but I better stop cause it’s getting real late and I gotta wake up for school tomorrow like good girls do! 🙂 Anyway I love you guys though and hope you have such a great week! 🙂 Keep your head up cause there’s not a better place for it!! Aww… I’m so happy! K well I love you guys so much! Peace! <3 Love Emily, Em

Emmysaurus Rex: It’s true what you said about about spending a year and half on a mission is the most productive use of your time. I don’t think anything will ever seem as worthwhile to do in my time after the mission, since I have done this for a while. But seriously, I would never take back my decision to go on a mission, if I had the chance to do it again. I am so thankful for this opportunity I have. But anyway, how is school? And work? I hope things are great for you. Are you dating anyone right now? Man, I really think you are going to get married before I do. Not that there is anything wrong with that. I just think that is what is going to happen. 🙂 Anyway, I gotta go now. Later!

I love you all! Be good. Love, Kelsey  XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX

Howzit-Elder Flexy!

-Flexy at Camp Loll, Wyoming 2003-

Elder Flexy 17:2 -email-

Mama,

this week was a good week we are making progress in the area. but i’m glad you had a good birthday. we had a district conference and president vonstetton came it was really good. its nice to see him more often. well i’m learning a lot from the other guys in our boarding we have a four man bourding so thats always fun. but ya we are having a baptism this week should be great i will be performing the baptism for N. but life is good. love you

Love Elder Flexy

 

Baba,

nice work on the party dad that was a good play!!! but i’m glad all is going well. i’m glad that lots of people came to the party to help mom be ok. i’m glad your still in love with each other and will be forever. all is well love you

Love Elder Flexy

 

M,

i’m glad your growing right up i can tell just from your emails that your progressing. Love you

Love Elder Flexy

Sunday Best!

Idaho Falls, Idaho -Temple

Speaking of the Second Coming of Jesus Christ, Dallin H. Oaks said, “What if the day of His coming were tomorrow? If we knew that we would meet the Lord tomorrow-through our premature death or through His unexpected coming-what would we do today? What confessions would you make? What practices would we discontinue? What accounts would we settle? What forgivenesses would we extend? What testimonies would we bear?

If we would do those things then, why not now? Why not seek peace while peace can be obtained? If our lamps of preparation are drawn down, let us start immediately to replenish them. 

We need to make both temporal and spiritual preparation for the events prophesied at the time of the Second Coming. And the preparation most likely to be neglected is the one less visible and more difficult-the spiritual. A 72-hour kit of temporal supplies may prove valuable for earthly challenges, but, as the foolish virgins learned to their sorrow, a 24-hour kit of spiritual preparation is of greater and more enduring value.” Conference Report April 2004.

 Hope your Sunday was the Best! Love, Joy

Family History Friday: Old Letter!

My second great grandfather was a soldier in the Civil War. He fought for the Union Army. In one of my parent’s family history trips, they came across a letter written by Andrew to his brother Gilbert. The letter is written in Norwegian and it was necessary to get it translated. It is a prized heirloom and amazing to think that one of my ancestors fought in a war that I have heard about my whole life. A war that ended almost a hundred years before I was born. Here is what the letter says:

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Camp near Raleigh, North Carolina                                                           April 23, 1865

Good brother Gilbert Hanson,

As I have leisure time I will address a few lines to let you know my situation. 

God be thanked I am fairly well, although for some time I have been bothered with dysentery. I have had no appetite so in a short time I have lost weight and am weak, but I hope it will soon be gone. 

We can not fully thank our God who now has put an end to this bloody war, and has protected us so well until this time. And I hope too that he will give us a lucky trip home so we can gather at home happy and contented and live with our families in peace. Still we will not regret our services, especially now that we bring peace and victory with us. It can not be of much interest to you if I should write of our enemy’s surrender. I am sure you know that as well as I do. I do not know what time we may be on our way home, but orders from Sherman are that we may go home soon. We may be here two or three weeks or we may go sooner. 

In the last letter I wrote to you, I asked you to send me another hat, but if you have not already sent it on receiving this letter, I think it better you do not send it because by that time it is possible we are on our way and then it would get lost. 

Paul Patterson came back to the Regt., but now he was taken to the hospital again. For one thing he was sickly and for another he got something wrong with one eye, so he could not see anything out of it. I have had not letter from Minnesota since we left Goldsbaro and that is now two weeks ago. 

I will close my short letter for this time with wishes that these lines will find you in good health. 

You are brotherly greeted from me, Andr. Hanson

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I can just feel the history in this letter. He was there. See if you can find a great letter written by one of your ancestors. They have led lives filled with adventures and amazing experiences. 

Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy 

P.S. Thank you to all of the Veterans who have served our country! 

Nifty, Nifty, Look Who’s 50!!

It was my 50th birthday, and I was feeling old, and unappreciated. Mostly by my hubby who hadn’t said much about the day. I think my birthday might be my favorite day of the year, next to Christmas and Halloween, and basically all the holidays. So I was wondering if my sweetie might do something special with it being a fairly significant one, but when not much was said I was thinking, “Oh well, maybe being with my most favorite person is enough.”

We went to dinner at Bella’s it was wonderful, then went home. Really nice, but not super special. The house was quiet most days, with two of the kids on missions. When we got home the house was quite dark and I could tell no one was home.  I thought we might watch a movie and just finish the evening quietly together. When we got in the house and walked past the kitchen I noticed a cup sitting on the hutch and said, “Hmmm, that’s weird.” and continued walking. As I past the living room all of a sudden…

Suprise!!!!

My darlin arranged for lots of family and friends to be at our home to surpise me when we came home from dinner! That stinker! He really got me! They all got me! What a neat surprise!

I loved it! It was so nice of all of them to come, and celebrate my birthday with me.

I love you all!!
Here are all my cards and gifts! I think this has been my best b-day so far!

What a great 50th Birthday!

Bucket List!

I am reaching a fairly significant milestone in my life tomorrow.

I am turning “50.”

Even saying it, and seeing it written in front of me here in this post is enough to make me want to…

a. cry

b. take a nap

c. scream and say “wow, you’re getting old!”

d. all of the above.

I am usually very comfortable with my age. I have no problem telling people how old I am. I am just amazed at the number. Seriously, I can’t write a country song that says what I am going to do with my next “50” years. Well, I could, but no one would believe it, and doing laps in the halls at a rest home at 90+ doesn’t sound like a fun thing to sing about.

I am half of a century!

I have been thinking a lot about my mom, and how old I was, when she turned 50. I honestly don’t remember it being a big deal to her. She never has been as dramatic as I am. I know because of her and others, that it is what you make it. It can be traumatic, or an accomplishment. I can say, “I havn’t done everything I wanted to do!” or “I’m not rich!” Or, I can focus on all that I have accomplished and say, “I am amazing!” I think I’ll do the second one. It sounds better!

So in celebration of my 50th birthday, here is my “Bucket List.” (This may be modified according to mood swings and hot flashes)

I would like to:

1-Serve  missions for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints: -Family History mission, Humanitarian mission, etc. (Note: we will definitely need to retire first for this, if we can, ya never know.)

2-Travel to: -England, Wales and Norway, to do family history research. -Other parts of the United States, Boston, Minnesota, North and South Carolina, Colorado for the same reason and also Canada. -San Antonio, Texas and the surrounding areas, where I served my mission a hundred years ago. – A cruise with all of my children and grandchildren when my darlin and I have been married for 50 years. -The Oregon and Washington coast -Central America to see the ruins.

3-See and do: -see the Northern Lights. -see Puffins in their natural habitat. -Meet a Prophet of God. – visit a medieval castle. -write a book.

The older I get, the more I care about the person I am, on the inside. I know it is inevitable that I will wrinkle and gray, and I am not the type to spend a ton of time and money fixing that, but I would like to be kinder to myself in the next “50” years. Be productive, and successful, and not hard on myself for all of my short comings. Love me -more.

So Happy Birthday, Self! I love you, and I’m glad to know you! You’re amazing!

Totally “Fort Worth” It!

Hermana Kelsey 9:3 -email-

Feliz cumpleanos a ti

Feliz cumpleanos a ti

Feliz cumpleanos a mi mami

Feliz cumpleanos a ti!

Happy birthday MOM!

Dear family,

This week was pretty good. The weather is cooling off a little, but

not like in Utah. We still don’t have snow, but we will at some point.

I’m not really excited, but I am glad I have some of my winter

clothes, at least, thanks to you mom. 🙂

So we still didn’t have our baptism, and it is now not going to

happen. The lady is having a lot of trials in her life right now, and

she is trying to figure them out still, I guess. But we told her the

gospel will only help her. We’re still not really sure what to think

about her, because when she first met with us and was learning, she

loved everything we taught, and was willing to do all of it. But now

something is different and is holding her back from taking the next

step. But we will try to work with her still.

On Thursday, we found out that one of our recent converts, Becky, is

finally making it official with this guy that she has been friends

with for a long time, who was actually the one who introduced her to

the church. If they end up getting married, they will make such a cute

little Mormon family. 🙂 🙂 We are way excited for her. Also, on

Thursday, Sister Q. got sick with like 24 hour stomach flu or

something, because she was throwing up, and we didn’t really get any

work done that day. I felt really bad for her. I didn’t really end up

getting it, but on Friday one of our Elders got it too. So there was a

lot of sickness going on here. But I’m still good so far. 🙂

On Saturday, we were doing service for one of our kind of

investigators, and she was mowing the lawn, while we raked and swept.

The lawn mower picked up a rock or something, and shot it out at me,

and it hit me in the leg. It was going like 80 miles an hour, and when

it first hit, I didn’t know what had happened. Then my leg just

started hurting really really bad. I just rubbed it a little bit, and

continued on. Then later that night I was looking at it, and it gave

me a pretty gnarly bruise. It was crazy. It got me pretty good. But

it’s okay. Also, on Saturday night, I think there was an earthquake.

Sister Q. and I were laying in bed getting ready to go to sleep,

and my bed started shaking a little. I thought it was Sister Q.

messing with me or something. Then all of the sudden she says, “Dude,

where are you?” And I said, “I’m right here.” She’s like, “Oh I

thought you were over here moving my bed. I was like, “I thought you

were shaking my bed. We both thought it was each other shaking the

other one’s bed, but it was actually just everything shaking. We

didn’t really know what happened with it, but the next day we saw all

of these semi sonic crews working around the area, so we don’t really

know what is going on. But whatever.

Yesterday, we had stake conference. It was awesome. President S.

(our mission president) was supposed to speak, but something came up

so one of his counselors spoke instead. But he did a great job. It was

cool too because we had some investigators there. We are pretty

excited about them, because we are thinking that they will go places.:)

That was basically our week. We did find this awesome family last

week. We are supposed to have a family home evening with them tonight

with some members. So we are excited about that too. 🙂

Dad: Oh man. I love that movie “The Other Side of Heaven”. Although,

the missionary work I do here in Texas is not really the same type, it

is still pretty cool. Sister Q told me that she saw that movie before

she was a member, and she didn’t even know it was about a missionary

from our church. She just thought he was a missionary in general. That

is great that you are staying busy too. That is also cool that

Grandmother bought that toy for mom. She really is great. 🙂

Emerny: Hey seester! I’m sorry about you being tired all the time. I

still have that a little. Not like I did before though. It’s a lot

better if you have medicine, especially if you have hypothyroidism.

But that is good that you are getting it checked. It will help a lot

if you need medicine. I’m really glad that you already realize how the

gospel blesses our lives. It took me a little while to realize that

myself, but now I know it more than ever. 🙂 If you aren’t married

before you are 21, you should definitely consider serving a mission.

It is awesome!

Well, I gotta go now. I love you all so much. Have a great week. 🙂

Love, Kelsey

XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX